Hello Friends,
well I am trying to write my 1st ever blog. excuse me for any mistakes. :)
Its been 6 months now i am staying in USA. and i have observed that Americans are Fat, lazy, money wasting people who dont care about their future life and others life. they dont care about tomorrow. but one thing i really want to tell you guys that these are the happiest people. they just smile at you all the time. you meet them in the elevator, in the bus, or while walking on the road, they will smile at you and will say " hello",they dont care who you are, what is your post etc. though you are unknown to them.it is a nice way to keep good relation with all kinds of people.
I am keep wondering why we Indians feel ego in doing this. why cant we talk to unknown person like this. why we feel shy to say hello to opposite sex. whenever we are in the bus, we never greet the bus conductor, we never say 'hello' to Rikshawala..he is a same human like you. we really need to break this 'class system' which is based on the MONEY.without class we can run our nation more successfully. why feel shy to say 'hi' to the girl sitting besides you in a movie theater. I dont find anything wrong in it. because of this habit of Americans ,now i am known to each and every person in this town. whenever i need help i can call anybody..anytime.... you make more contacts with this way.
I am learning this habit now. and i am going to try this in india..yeah i am aware that while saying 'hello' to unknown girl, i will might get fingerprints on my cheeks :P but i really dont care.this will not happen all the time. I want to enlarge my friends circle, no matter male or female, younger or elder..i am going to say hello to everyone :)
want to stay happy?? Guys think about it...
very true tushar...... we do discriminate in the name of cast, religion, sex, social status, monetary well being, etc......
ReplyDeleteIts really difficult to change evryone out here...but if we sow a seed pf love a belongingness in the minds of poeple close to us.... then we wld find the worth of our living.....
sure once u come back...even i wld love to make a small difference in this world....
Keep goin...and u write well too....! :)
hmmm...nice to see u writing. keep it up and hope to see some more THOUGHTS from u.
ReplyDeleteas far as blog is concerned, its preety good, rt from the Title. its good that u r taking some good virtues from them.keep it up
Aditya
Thanks Namrata and Aditya. your comments are really cheering me up to write more :)
ReplyDelete@Aditya- Thanks bhaau..i need your suggestions to improve my writing :)
@namrata- nice to know that you are ready to follow HELLO way :) yes it is bit difficult to change everyone in India. but i think we scared to talk in india because our we take it in a wrong way. whenever i say hi to unknown girl, she thinks that i am flirting with her. we need to change our mentality. they way to look at the person.. right now i am training a black guy.and he is a MUSLIM. 1st i was scrared of black guys.i used to think that they are arrogant,always ready to fight etc. but after speaking to him i found him really well mannered. not every person is a same. here in US i can talk ANYTHING to 45 years old person. i dont want exactly same situation in India. we should stay in limits. but we need little freedom to talk to everybody. lets do it guys. join me :)
whenever i say hi to unknown girl,
ReplyDeleteshe thinks that i am flirting with her.
wah wah wah!!!!!!!
@ Aditya- try to speak unknown girls. you she will feel the same
ReplyDeletetushar...i do agree wht you are saying, but ultimatum is that we (and m talking as a whole)are brought up that way...we are brainwashed to follow hierarchy, rules, cos tomes traditions., which says that u are no one, and theres always a better one who is an expert in all...which indirectly-directly means that u are not capable of making a difference and u are one of the sheep in the flock... But really as i told u earlier that we can make a difference...lets make a habit to st least smile...I do it, and believe me..that makes a difference as i get to know new people and the best treatment possible...! :)
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